I know. It’s weird, right? Most blogs are about setting goals (“Cook All the Things!” “Run All the Races!”) and achieving them. Some are even about mastering a thing, or teaching you how to master a thing. But this one is about learning how to not do. Maybe it’s better said that this blog is about unlearning how to constantly, relentlessly be pushing for the next brass ring. 2014 will be the year of no New Year’s Resolutions, no signing up for endurance races and triathlons, and no dieting. It will be a year of figuring out how to enjoy an activity (and people) without constantly thinking about an end result. These are my confessions of learning how to live without measuring myself by achievements, by gold stars or boxes checked off a list. Maybe it will work, maybe it won’t.